“Then God looked over all he had made, and he saw that it was very good!…” Gen 1:31
He made man in His own image, and then for the first time, God saw something that was not good.
“It was not good for the man to be alone.”
God determined to make a helper for him and it was after this decision, according to Genesis 2:19, that He made the animals and birds— as though from among them such a helper might be chosen. He even brought them to Adam, “to see what he would call them.”
The animals are there, fellow creatures with us of the same Creator-God, fellow sufferers, mute
and mysterious. “But for the man there was not found a helper fit for him.”
God might have given Adam another man to be his friend, to walk,talk and argue with if that was his pleasure. But Adam needed more than the companionship of the animals or the friendship of a man. He needed a helper, specially designed and prepared to fill that role…
And It was a woman God gave!
You can’t make proper use of a thing unless you know what it was made for, whether it is a safety pin or a sailboat. To me it is wonderful thing to be a woman under God —to know, first of all, that we were made ;
“So God created man in his own image, in the image of God he created him; male and female he created them.”)
and then that we were made for something;
(“The rib which the Lord God
had taken from the man he made into a woman and brought her to the man.”)
This was the original idea. This is what woman was for. The New Testament refers back clearly
and strongly to this purpose:
“For man was not made from woman, but woman from man. Neither was
man created for woman, but woman for man.”
Some texts are susceptible of differing interpretations, but for the life of me I can’t see any ambiguities in this one. 😊 No, not one!
I remember sometime back someone kept asking me “why letmebeawoman and who is stopping you from being a woman? …”
From the expose above, you know that basically, a man should be able to call a woman his own as though she was his property because the Lord made her for him. I know a lot of us, women or even some men ,will dispute it because in mordern day society, each man for himself… Man or woman, and with all this “women empowerment” saga going on… Most women may not be comfortable with the idea that : the original thought that made God pick the woman from within the man and placed her beside him was because he felt it was not good that the man was alone.
Man is the chiefest of God’s creation,and without a doubt, we see what man has been able to accomplish with the raw materials God gave him.
Now… Dear Good woman; This is to you…Don’t you ever feel or think to yourself that you are insignificant! because I’m just imagining a world without women. I believe the human race would’ve ceased to advance beyond the first family!
As insignificant as child bearing and raising has been made to seem; Trust me, it is what has kept the human race advancing from one generation to the other. My dear woman, you are very powerful! You have housed the generation of humanity and given it expression since the days of eve! Your place cannot be emphasized enough! Think about just this and say to yourself, “I am an important part of God’s plan” … Apart from everything that was just a desire of God to do, you were a necessity. God brought you as a remedy to something that was not good in the midst of his creation; “for God saw that it was not good for man to be alone”
Now I know the men are reading and having a cocktail of feelings…
Dear Good Man, a good woman is God’s gift to you…Can you appreciate that?!
One young man said to me, “it wasn’t man that said he was alone, it was God that said it was not good for him to be alone”… Truth be told,, many men have a hard time appreciating this particular gift of God. They probably have a hard time seeing from God’s perspective what the real problem was with him being alone. They say things like, “I can cook, I can do my laundry etc, what more can a woman do in my life when she comes? …” 😂😂😂😂
“Dear Good man…” i say again that “A good woman is God’s gift to you.😊”
Can you appreciate that?
The woman was made for the man. To be a suitable helper for him…For him…For him…For the man… For the man…
See God, in wanting a helper for the man did not give him one of the birds or the fishes… He created for him a special kind of man… “a woman; because the man was special, he wasn’t like one of the animals. He had a special vision, a special role with special needs and so God made him someone special.
Dear Good Man;
Know for a fact, that your perspective makes all the difference👀👸🏽/🧟♀
Dear Good woman;
Let no one deceive you, you were specially prepared to be a helper for the man. No matter how hard it seems, I believe in you as the handiwork of God and so I can boldly say that you are able!✊🏽🔥
You are capable of being a helper. You’ve got the power to make his life better, to make him happy. God brought you in for a blessing and not for a burden! Can you open your eyes to see, that you are a woman on assignment?!
👸🏽
Dear Good man, a good woman is God’s gift to you…Can you appreciate that? !
Can you appreciate that you are precious in the eyes of God and so he watched you, found your peculiar needs and fitted a helper to meet those very needs? Can you understand that having a woman is a blessing and not a burden? It’s an advantage and not a disadvantage? She’s a gift and not a mere thing!
For what it’s worth let me drop this bible verse here…
Pro 18:22 Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the LORD.
Truth is, the level of wisdom, love and use you mete out to your woman is a complete reflection of how you see yourself.
Dear young man, do you believe that God’s eyes are on you enough, that he cares about you enough to bring you such a package of help? She’s a quintessential of the Proverbs 31 woman. She is more precious than rubies and if only you can see you will treat her as such!🙇🏽♀💎💫 And she will be to you… That help – meant for a King!
👸🏽So letmebeawoman; because she’s what I was made to be!