Hold on! Bad timing!
Life is a journey…
Of good days and bad
Sunny days and cloudy
Happy days and gloomy
On this journey many things happen
But one thing is constant… Time!
There is time for everything
Now I like to say that in as much as you are responsible for yourself
U need to know that the particular time within which you are operating could be an influencing factor
So to always stay in control you need to know what time you are in and what are the best moves to make.
The worst move of all however is making life long decisions in the midst of a temporary situation.
For many people,
in trials, in weakness, in adversity, we are forced by the circumstances to make a choice which could go beyond our present time and haunt us in the future.
The commonest of these, is this example… Making marital commitments in a moment of weakness.
When you’re financially stressed you’re weak
When you feel burdened by some baggage you’re weak
When your life’s pieces are not well organized you’re weak
Being Immature in itself is sort of a weakness
Now this is what happens…
Weakness are overcome with growth and time.
So supposing you made a decision to marry a man because then… You were terrified about being alone…
Now after sometime when you grow up and begin to outgrow that weakness, your reason for your decision becomes displaced and then all that is left to it is regret.
Uncomfortable situations come and go, and all things will work together for your good if you love God.
Do not push your life buttons when you are not at your best.
Lots of people have regretted decisions because, they made them in a bad place.
Whenever it feel like you’re in a bad place jux remember… “this too will pass” …
You will either grow out of it or it goes with the winds and brighter days jux show up
Usually the bad place is where your weaknesses are exalted and highlighted and you or others tend to judge you by your them.
Plus you tend to make choices that stem from these shortcomings of yours.
However, keep in mind that at every stage of your life there is a great power in you awaiting discovery.
They say two halves make a whole but In marriage 2wholes make 1… Because the value of the marriage is determined by the value of the couple .
If they are both weak and broken so will their marriage be…
And If they are two whole and positive people… it will tell on the marriage .
If you find yourself weak or broken in anyway…
Wait for the great shepherd to repair you before someone comes along and makes you compromise even when you don’t have to.
Whenever you feel things aren’t holding up… You hold up! with all long term decisions until that weakness passes.
When you are strong and at your best you have a higher chance of making a better toss of the dice… Cos you will be acting from your truest self, untainted and uncompromised!
Jux hold up! Good times ahead!